Be careful what you wish for; wishes have a way of coming true, and they can have serious consequences for those we love most.
We assume that if our health changes our kids, spouse or another family member will step up and provide the care we need. But will they? And at what cost?
If aging baby boomers are expected to provide healthcare for their parents, they should know in advance the price they will pay in the form of their own health, retirement lifestyle plans and the toll it can take on their relationships with a spouse, children and grandchildren. More important, those who plan on having their children provide long-term health care for them better make sure the kids know it!
Families are being torn apart because parents do not share
their expectations with adult children. The adult children risk a similar
situation by not talking to their own kids. Three and four generations are
being affected by the graying of
There is a disease among us that is affecting women, in particular, but men as well. I refer to it as “Designated Woman Syndrome.” Whether or not they are aware of it, 80% of women, young and old, have been designated to be someone else’s caregiver. It could be a spouse, a mother, father, parent in law or a sibling. And the reality is that 90% of care is provided and received in someone’s home.
A caregiver must have an income and hold a family together, but almost 30% of caregivers under age 65 say they have quit their jobs to provide care for another person, and 25% have reduced their work hours. Some female caregivers have three jobs. They care for their children, they care for a spouse or an elderly parent and they work a full time job.
Long-Term Care is a family issue, and an economic issue. A woman, on becoming a caregiver, may have to go from a full-time position to a part-time work schedule. She is already earning 74¢ to every $1.00 her male counterpart is earning. She then has less of both necessary and discretionary income. She has less for the savings account, less money being paid in to her own Social Security account, less money to contribute to her own 401K and could lose out on employer matching contributions.
A caregiver may also be forced to take a 12-week unpaid family leave, which results in a loss of income for three months. She may not even be able to assume her previous position when she returns and will be obligated to pay for the three months of health benefits that stayed in effect while she was gone. What if she then is forced to work part time and loses those health benefits? This caregiver has compromised her own physical and emotional well being in addition to suffering a significant financial loss.
WHO WILL CARE FOR THE CAREGIVER?
Ideally, this woman had the forethought to plan for her own Long-Term
Care, because now she is painfully aware that she cannot expect the same from
her own spouse, children or extended family. Long-Term Care insurance should be
a consideration whether you are 40 or 70. None of us wants to spend our last
years in poverty, nor do we want to place a burden on others. Before saying,
“my kids will take care of me,” take advantage of the coming holidays, when
families are together, and address the elephant in the room. Start the
conversation, open up the dialogue and, by all means, write down what has been
decided. Make sure everyone involved knows the plan and is up to the task. By
not planning for your own Long-Term Care, you have made a decision to make it
someone else’s problem. But are they willing to take on that responsibility? Do
they really know what that means? The time to ask is before you need care.
Let’s talk about it.
Dorothy McMahon, president of McMahon and Associates, is
a Long-Term Care Insurance Consultant in Bloomfield Hills, MI. Reach her at (248) 844-9787 or LTCINSUSA@aol.com.
This is particularly true for women, who typically have
fewer resources at retirement than men. Often their prime earning years are cut
short to raise children or care for aging parents. In 2005, according to the
Social Security Administration, retired women received an average of $867 per
month from Social Security compared to the $1,101 per month for men; and yet
women outlive men, on average, by more than five years.
Currently, Medicare has a $75 trillion un-funded liability,
and it will no longer help support Medicaid providers. Social Security has a
$16 trillion un-funded liability, and it will no longer supplement Medicaid's
cost of Long-Term Care. The time has come to confront this major retirement
crisis, and women in particular must plan aggressively for retirement and for
the possibility of chronic illness and frailty.
Whether a woman is young and just starting out in a career
or approaching retirement, single or married, her income and longevity will
directly determine her standard of living. Women today must plan for a long
life, maximizing contributions to qualified retirement plans and making small
sacrifices in order to enjoy retirement and lifestyle security in the future.
Retirement should be safe, secure and free of financial worry.
I have devoted many years to helping my clients, both male
and female, protect the assets that they have accumulated through a lifetime of
work. It doesn't matter if they are 50 or 75. What does matter is if their
health changes between the ages of 45 and 85 and whether they have purchased
Long-Term Care insurance. Without Long-Term Care insurance, they could be
forced to deplete their assets.
For those of you who think you can't afford Long-Term Care
insurance, let me put this is perspective.
The cost of care in
We then built in to the policy a benefit that would
automatically increase her $170 daily benefit by a compound 5% per day each
year on the anniversary date of her policy. The total of her premiums paid to
date is $9,103.50. If she needed care today, this policy would pay $277 per day
for her care and would pay out a maximum of $404,420. This policy now offers
her an exceptional daily benefit with the option of extending her lifetime
maximum benefit. Could she have saved $404,420 in ten years? Could you? And for
skeptics who say, "I may never need care," where you can you possibly
get a better return on $910.35 per year?
If a client needs care, she has the funds to pay for it and
the assets she has accumulated over those 10 years stay perfectly in tact. And
she will never pay a premium while she is receiving a benefit from the company.
Today 43% of people receiving Long-Term health care are
under age 65 and 75% of them are women. As we age, our chances of needing care
increase. Who will care for us? And where will the money come from? These are
questions that need to be asked and answered.
Long-Term Care doesn't have to be a complicated and
unpleasant subject. In fact, taking responsibility for your own health and
welfare can help you avoid years of poverty or substandard care. Every woman
must have a Long-Term Care plan in place that will fit her lifestyle and
budget.
Dorothy McMahon, president of McMahon and Associates, is
a Long-Term Care Insurance Consultant in Bloomfield Hills, MI. Reach her at (248) 844-9787 or LTCINSUSA@aol.com.
Every woman should understand some important facts about Long-Term Care. Long-Term Care is care what you would require when you are unable to care for yourself, should that happen when you are 50-years old or 80, or any time in between.
There may come a time when you are no longer able to care for yourself and it will be necessary to pay someone to take care of you. You may need help with bathing, eating, dressing, toileting, continence or transferring. These are not necessarily things that you would want your husband, significant other or your children to do for you, and on average, women live seven years longer than men, meaning that we typically spend more time taking care of others and that fewer family members are around to take care of us when the time comes.
You may require Long-Term care if you are diagnosed with a cognitive impairment, such as Alzheimer’s disease. Long-Term Care can be required due to mental illness, injury, or disability at any age; 43% of those individuals requiring long-term support services today are under age 65.
Most women are surprised to learn that long-Term care support services are not covered by their health or disability income insurance. Medicare may be available for those over 65, but it will only pay for a limited amount of skilled care following a hospital stay. Very few people actually end up requiring skilled care. If you need health care for an extended period of time, chances are you will pay for this care from your savings or retirement income.
The average annual cost of care in
Long-Term Care insurance is a contract that guarantees to pay for a sudden, unexpected, large, continuing expense that would seriously deplete or exhaust your financial resources. It is not limited to nursing home care for the elderly. Long-Term Care insurance is actually designed to be, and may be the only, tool we have to keep us out of a nursing home when we need care for an extended period of time, as Long-Term Care insurance will actually pay for care in your home.
Savvy women today, even those with significant assets, now consider owning some Long-Term Care insurance because it allows your family members to care about you – not for you – and if they do, it will allow them to care for you better and longer.
If you are considering Long-Term Care insurance protection, here are five things to remember.
The real benefit of Long-Term Care insurance is access to quality care in the private marketplace at the appropriate level. Asset protection is just the frosting on the cake.
Dorothy McMahon, president of McMahon and Associates, is a Long-Term Care Insurance Consultant in Bloomfield Hills, MI. Reach her at (248) 844-9787 or LTCINSUSA@aol.com.
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